ABUSIVE PARENTS

Why am I angry?

Parents are naturally supposed to be loving and caring. But what happens when the opposite happens. It’s confusing really confusing, to try to understand why.

Most of the times, you will think that you are the problem. You will end up looking for reasons why they treat you bad. You will fail to understand or experience love as a child. Family unit will not make any sense to you. Neither do parent-child relationship. You will even wish that you were never born or worse they would have abandoned or aborted you.

That alcoholic father or mother. That neglect to offer you basic needs. That creates a small hell for you called home. He/she cursing and wishing you all the bad things. They may even be beating you pretty bad. Crying becomes your lullaby. And taking care of them become your responsibility.

I may not make sense right now but you will agree some years to come. It gets better with time. You will never understand why they turned out that way. Why they had to be abusive and not supportive. But do your best to be better than them.

Hold no anger towards them They are still your parents. Don’t be bitter but be better. Revenge should not even cross your thoughts. Do your best to be a good kid and help will always find its way to you.

Stop asking yourself questions that only frustrates you. But rather accept the fate and move past it. Find a way to keep the negatives out and capitalize on the positives. Wear ear plugs or earphones , if you have to. Keep hope alive and see the bright days ahead.

Community is ready to offer some love, reach out to them. Open your arms, there’s so much love to go around. And when everything turns out okay. If your parents will still be alive, spoil them fullest.

Published by Cheche Winnie

Article Writer and Blogger I am blogger , proof reader, writer and copy writer with a Bachelor degree and three years of experience. I write easy to read articles with excellent English and zero grammatical error. Articles that are creative and deliver the inteneded message . I do intense research while writing the articles. I always deliver my work on time and adhere to the timelines given. Always online hence able to start working on your piece as soon as your hire me. I work in real time. Nature Conservationist Passionate about nature conservation education and awareness. I believe that our existence depends on the mother nature. I am also have skills in researching and have managed to publish my own article on the effects of the exotic plants species on the indigenous plants in the Arid lands of Kenya.

8 thoughts on “ABUSIVE PARENTS

  1. Life starts at tunnel,first you see a light behind,then when you walk only dark is around you inside the tunnel,somehow you must find light to get out of there,but traps disable you to get out.Anyway at the end of the tunnel light is only you see and that means you are in heaven 🙂 .I agree with you parents must be our guardian angels, not our attackers,but we can’t do nothing about it, we get what we get.Our goal must be to look out our kids better than they looked for us 🙂 .Kids are biggest treasure on the world.

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    1. Very true dear. We just have to live past the difficulties and appreciate our parents irregardless of the situations. We concentrate on what makes us better, spoil our parents with gratitude and live happily.

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