Most of the time ,the so-called good guys are more likely to mess you up if you take their word for it,
They are so concerned on what we think of them hence living an hypocritical life,
They are so used to the fake lives to a point that they can no longer distinguish fake from real.
They forgot what happiness feels like and instead replaced with the habit of pleasing others,
They are so eager to be seen as the “good” guys hence doing whatever it takes to retain it that way.
On the other hand, those guys that may be seen or labelled as the “bad” guys,
You know the drug addicts by choice, law breakers, gangsters and the likes,
The guys you wanna never mess around with or even be near to,
Those who don’t follow the normal routine like everyone else,
They are ready and more willing to break the rules and odds,
They are not concerned of how you see them but what they feel for themselves,
Mostly, they keep it black and white.
The probability of a “good” guy telling you the harsh truth is very minimal compared to the “bad” guy,
The good guy will take time to think before saying anything calculating every possibilities of your reaction afterwards,
But the so-called bad guy, will just throw the words as they come to their head,
If you have messed up, they will not sugar coat it but tell you as it is,
Hurtful but helpful.
The few good people who are doing it wrongly kindly make some changes,
Being good doesn’t mean that you will always have good news or live a perfect life,
It just means that you will always make the right decisions, a few wrong decisions but most importantly remain real.
Everyone loves good news but that doesn’t mean we ignore and pretend that the bad news doesn’t exist,
You fear hurting other people’s feelings, preventing doing exactly that will cause far more damage to them,
Real good people say as it is and be there for one another truly.
Peace
yes, everywhere
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A guy once told me the following: When you speak to a man, you should feel an energy pushing back against you. This energy is his passion for life and the dedication he has to his dreams.
Nice guys lack “push back” this because they are, by and large, absent of passion and dedication.
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Awesome 🌟 and very true
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Nice post
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True. Being “good” should not be done in order to gain respect and friendship. We should be good because it’s the right thing to do and we should not care what other people think about it, or if anyone is every watching. That way we can keep things in perspective.
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Very true dear
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